How to small talk like a pro in easy steps

1. Show genuine interest and ask open-ended questions.

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2. Practice active listening and engage with appropriate cues.

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3. Find common ground for connection.

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4. Use positive body language to create a comfortable atmosphere.

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5. Avoid controversial topics.

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6. Share interesting anecdotes.

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7. Incorporate humor to break the ice.

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8. Practice good conversational etiquette.

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9. Show empathy and understanding.

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10. Regularly engage in small talk to improve your skills.

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